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Posted on 07-14-05 8:07 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Heard somewhere "Marrigae is a drama where hero dies in a first chapter". Khai afu lai ta thaha bhayana. Many experiencied ladies and gentelmen in SAJHA.

Is marriage really important in life? Biha gare pachhi ta sabai freedom sakinchha re ni..ho ra bhanya??????????????????
 
Posted on 07-14-05 8:58 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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AMAZING IS ASKING REALLY AMAZING QUESTION..... WHY DON'T YOU PEEP INTO UR HEART AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT KIND OF FREEDOM WOULD YOU WANT IN MARRIAGE? ......THEN GO TO UR WOULD BE OTHER HALF AND IF SHE/HE SAYS "YES" TO ALL THE CHHOOT YOU WANT FROM HER.........END OF YOUR WORRIES ;)
 
Posted on 07-14-05 1:25 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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love and marriage, love and marriage is not just a game brother
love and marriage, love and marriage is when we need each other
 
Posted on 07-14-05 11:25 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Huahpuppy ko kuRA GHAT paryou tara afno ta na love parya na marriage garya.. kehi thaha bhayana yaar....... FANTA love matrai gariyo halka fulka.....

But all of the married people suggest me "Hera.... babu.. jati moj garna chha, j garnu chha biha agadi matra garnu.. Bihe pachhi sabai tension hunchha.... ani tyasai ma bachchha bhaya pachhi ta bachhca ko maya lagchha.. kahi ghumna, ramailo garna paidaina SO LIVE UR LIFE FULL CIRCLE as a bachelor"


 
Posted on 07-15-05 12:02 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Nah, you dont gotta marry anybody.... its just a way to show that you are committed.. and decide to give up all the freedom, which you would never want if you really like the person you are with.... So, nah.. marriage aint important..... but like i said.. it shows COMMITTMENT..... and thats the only you ALOT of people would wanna be..... THEY wanna MAKE SURE that YOU are gonna be together.... Legally!!! or in the eyes of the society.....
 
Posted on 07-15-05 12:04 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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..... and thats the only way ALOT of people would want it to be
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Posted on 07-15-05 1:51 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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U may think u r loosing ur freedom but think of all the things you are gaining in return.
 
Posted on 07-15-05 5:05 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Bihey paach life sidincha? Maybe for some and for others it might be the beginning. For those of you who are single..how many think their current stage of 'freedom' is great? Maybe life can be better after marriage ;) U never know until U try.
 
Posted on 07-15-05 5:50 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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In most cases, we are tremendously more forgiving towards family than anyone else. But why? You aren't legall obligated to be that way. You aren't legally obligated to keep in touch with your parents once you leave to go start your life. There is no legal obligation for us to help these people when they are old and need assistance. But we do. Even when they piss us off -- we will be there for them if they need us. Why? Because they are family.

Marriage is the beginning of a family. It doesnt require kids. It's saying to your spouse that they are no longer a person I am dating or someone I am living with, but they are family. The same un-biased love and incredible patience and tolerance you show with family is now shown to your spouse. When you think of words like father, mother, brother, daughter, or son ... we think family. Yet I think for many people they put the words husband and wife in a different category. It shouldn't be that way.

Of course if you are not close with your family then its easy to see why you would see no use in marriage. But if you believe in family and not in marriage then I am of the opinion that you are looking at marriage incorrectly.

Just my thoughts.

 
Posted on 07-15-05 6:34 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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''Of course if you are not close with your family then its easy to see why you would see no use in marriage. But if you believe in family and not in marriage then I am of the opinion that you are looking at marriage incorrectly. ''

If you mean to say marriage is the inclusion of your spouse in your family, I couldn't have agreed more on your thoughts. Yeh, people should understand that marriage automatically endorses the bride as a member of the family. A member who is as important as any other members of that family- either it be the father, mother, brother or sister of the groom. In Nepal, newly wed bride is seldom regarded as an equally important member of the family and seldom given to let her realize that the new home and family is her own immidiately after she enters the new home. But things are improving for brides these days, although not as quickly as they should have been.
 
Posted on 07-15-05 6:48 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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First there is the engagement ring.......then the wedding ring.....then there is.............SufferRING.......hehe
 
Posted on 07-15-05 6:58 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Don't get married all your worries will vanish right there.
OR
If u want freedom after marriage, don't set boundaries for your wife and u in turn with have lotsa freedom by default :D

Of course this is the opinion of an unmarried girl, which means the theory has not been tested.
 
Posted on 07-15-05 7:54 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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सादी बिहा तो भाई मोतीचुरका
जो खाय पाछताये जो ना खाये पछतये ।

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no idea !so dont tell me to explain:D

 
Posted on 07-15-05 9:15 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Marriage...re?!

Life is a drama!
Act one: you're born!
Act two: You die!

Inbetween are the breaks... smoke it up, smoke it off, drink it up, drink it off, sleep it up or sleep it off... up to you!
 
Posted on 07-15-05 10:09 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Marriage is not really important, but some people like me have common choices among most others and decide to tie a knot.

All other times it is peer pressure.

My friend's 62 year old uncle in palpa thinks marriage is primarily for sex (as dating is not very common in that part of the world) which accidently breeds children as by products.

Moreover, as my mom puts it, it is a security issue more than a relationship-

You marry - you breed and your offsprings take care of you when you get old you need not whine about oiling your ragged car or your inability to bake a cake at the age of seventy.

Some intellects cough and clear their throat and say it is all about sharing. One must ask them to be specific. Sharing what????

A would have been elizabeth taylor sips frapuccino in michigan avenue and wanders her eyes hungrily all over looking for rich dudes. Marriage for her is merely an alimony.

Different people different opinions....




 
Posted on 07-16-05 4:38 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hey guys .......now iM in Nepal.

Ahiley ta Kathmandu ma LOK GIT le khub market piteko rahechha. Log git ko bhid ma one famous song .........ahiley ko khub popular git.......

here we go.......

SACHO KURA HOINA YOU JHUTHO
BIHE GARE HATARAI HATAR MA, FURSADA MA LAGCHHA PACHHUTO....


u wanna hear????????
 
Posted on 07-16-05 8:20 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Guys, the view of getting married depends on you. Nepalese say "we marry first, then love." Nepricans say "we love first, then marry." Nepalese say "our marriage is the beginning of a love affair." Neprican say "our marriage is the happy end of a romance." For me, marriage is indissoluble bond, but not a contract as westerns thought.
 
Posted on 07-16-05 10:22 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Famous quotes about women and marriage

"When a woman becomes a scholar there is usually something wrong with her sexual organs."
Friedrich Nietzsche

"As long as a woman can look ten years younger than her own daughter, she is perfectly satisfied."
Oscar Wilde

"Direct thought is not an attribute of feminity. In this, women are now centuries behind man."
Thomas Edison

"Sensible and responsible women do not want to vote."
Grover Cleveland, Former US President (1905)

"Show me a woman who doesn't feel guilt and I'll show you a man."
Erica Jong

"Nature intended women to be our slaves. They are our property."
Napolean Bonaparte

"Women are nothing but machines for producing children."
Napolean Bonaparte

"An archaeologist is best husband a woman can have: the older she gets, the more interested he is in her."
Agatha Christie

"Women are like elephants. Everyone likes to look at them but no-one likes to have to keep one."
WC Fields

"My wife is the sort of woman who gives necrophillia a bad name."
Patrick Murray

"Women should be obscene and not heard."
Groucho Marx

"Women's intuition is the result of millions of years of not thinking."
Rupert Hughes

"Women: Can't live with them, can't bury them in the back yard without the neighbours seeing."
Sean Williamson

"Women should have labels on their foreheads saying, 'Government Health Warning: women can seriously damage your brains, genitals, current account, confidence, razor blades, and good standing among your friends'."
Jeffrey Bernard

"A woman is an occasional pleasure but a cigar is always a smoke."
Groucho Marx

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another."
HL Mencken

"When I have one foot in the grave, I will tell the whole truth about women. I shall tell it, jump into my coffin, pull the lid over me and say, 'Do what you like now'."
Leo Tolstoy

"Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel."
Leonardo Di Vinci

"I don't think I'll get married again. I'll just find a woman I don't like and give her a house."
Lewis Grizzard

"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me and the second one didn't."
Patrick Murray

"The appropriate age for marriage is around eighteen for girls and thirty-seven for men."
Aristotle

"I wouldn't be caught dead marrying a woman old enough to be my wife."
Tony Curtis

"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."
Henry Youngman

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married, and by then it was too late."
Max Kaufman

"Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same."
Oscar Wilde

"Dammit sir, it's your duty to get married. You can't be always living for pleasure."
Oscar Wilde

"Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who'll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you're in the wrong house, that's what it means."
George Burns

"Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife."
Groucho Marx

"When a man steals your wife there is no better revenge than to let him keep her."
Sacha Guitry

"The poor wish to be rich, the rich wish to be happy, the single wish to be married, and the married wish to be dead."
Ann Landers

"My advice to you is get married: if you find a good wife you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher."
Socrates

"My wife has a slight impediment in her speech. Every now and then she stops to breathe."
Jimmy Durante

"Marriage is a great institution, but I'm not ready for an institution yet."
Mae West

"It was a perfect marriage. She didn't want to and he couldn't."
Spike Milligan

"Love is temporary insanity curable by marriage."
Ambrose Bierce
 
Posted on 07-16-05 1:47 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hmm... Marriage!! After a certain age.. a person hears this word so much that they sort of develop a phobia! LOL ... has not happened to me yet. I still have a looooong time to go before I get pestered about marriage and finding a good MATE I can depend on. But my views on marriage?

I think marriage is something one should committ to when THEY ARE SURE that the person they are going to marry is THE ONE. I mean its not a game of hide and seek or something. When you marry, you have to spend you whole god damn life (if you dun plan on divorcing!) witha certain person . You have to go through everything together. So it better be someone who you absolutely think you can share every moment of your life with. Companionship might seem like fun, but the idea of having "no way out" is scary!

The whole though freaks me out. I mean every decision you make, every step you take has to be dependent on not only you BUT ON SOMEONE ELSE!! I mean holy shit!:s HOW CAN 1 GO THROUGH ALL THIS? But then I take a glimpse at my mom and dad, at my grand parents... and even at my cousin and his gal who have been together for yearssss and i feel that maybe it isnt so bad after all! JUST dont think of it as imprisonment of life.. think of it as accepting the one you love as a part of yourself and promising that you will always be there. That should not be so bad after all. RIGHT?:s
 
Posted on 07-16-05 2:03 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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marriage is all about getting divorced:)
 



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