Hmm... Marriage!! After a certain age.. a person hears this word so much that they sort of develop a phobia! LOL ... has not happened to me yet. I still have a looooong time to go before I get pestered about marriage and finding a good MATE I can depend on. But my views on marriage? I think marriage is something one should committ to when THEY ARE SURE that the person they are going to marry is THE ONE. I mean its not a game of hide and seek or something. When you marry, you have to spend you whole god damn life (if you dun plan on divorcing!) witha certain person . You have to go through everything together. So it better be someone who you absolutely think you can share every moment of your life with. Companionship might seem like fun, but the idea of having "no way out" is scary! The whole though freaks me out. I mean every decision you make, every step you take has to be dependent on not only you BUT ON SOMEONE ELSE!! I mean holy shit!:s HOW CAN 1 GO THROUGH ALL THIS? But then I take a glimpse at my mom and dad, at my grand parents... and even at my cousin and his gal who have been together for yearssss and i feel that maybe it isnt so bad after all! JUST dont think of it as imprisonment of life.. think of it as accepting the one you love as a part of yourself and promising that you will always be there. That should not be so bad after all. RIGHT?:s