Dear Friends
I am now in Japan and going to finish my masters level in civil engineering from Osaka university. I will enroll in P.hd. in this April session. I frequently read this Kurakani in sajha.com.Today I also want to participate in it. Before enrolling to P.hd. I am planning to get married because I am fed up with this lonely life. I have not any girl friends untill now. As all of you know getting married is not like buying a macdonalds in a resturaant. I am already 29. I need suggestions that what kind of girl is suitable for me..older than me or just slightly younger or very younger.

Reading at this....NO ONE!!

"As all of you know getting married is not like buying a macdonalds in a resturaant."

Reallllllyyy? I thought the arrange marriage system gave the same kind of service.

:)

अब तपाइ आफैलाई थाहा छैन रै'छ कस्तो चाहियो भुनेर, हाम्ले कहाँबाट थाहा पाम्ने!!!
फेरि यस्तो बुनेर भन्दिम्ला र पछि लु तपाइसंग होइन मैसंग पो ब्या गर्छु भन्द्यो भने परेन आपत!!!...;)
फेरि केटिहरुलाइ मुन पर्दैन है यस्तो आफुलाइ के चहिन्छ भनेर था नपाको मान्छेहरु!!!
आफै सोच्न थालम न!!! कि पढ्दा पढ्दा अरु सोच्न सकिएन!!!....:P

friend dibya raj koiral, i dont know what exactly you expect people to say. but you are a big boy now and can probably think for yourself. i guess 29 is a ripe age at which to get married. since you have not had that kind of companionship, you will probably find fulfilment from a married life. based on what you have said, and based on some "educated extrapolations" my recommendation to you is to ask your parents to find someone back home. you should make a trip back home and find some alone time with your prospective candidates. try to get to know the person, and try to help them get to know you....then make a decision that is mutually agreeable.. .if you find a connection, go with your heart and your gut. don't over-analyze the situation, though... lemme know how it goes..he he...i will be thiking about this marriage thingy a few years down the line too..
good luck with your phd and have a happy married life..

yea, age does not matter, in my opinion. but it might be an issue for your parents.

OHHHH
I want to getting married....yes...hehe ...please find me a bride

Hey MR, point to be noticed....

By the age of 29, if you still do not know what kind of girl you are looking, then dude, then there is no meaning of our suggestions and advices.

The only hope for you is get a arranged marriage- ultimate solution to your dilemma.

If this offense you, sorry DRK- this is a reality, please accept it....

Good luck for your quest of eligible wife/wives.

Suhana

DUde, koirala ji! mero po behe ko cahana aayo bhaneko ta tapai ko ne aayecha............dherai sochu hudaina, ma pani nepal gaako thiye last year, ramro kte ne bheteko thiye........hera ta antim ma ( bechari lai ke bhanera reject gare) U r to traditional and you are not my type kina..........coz she didnot want to kiss me before marriage.........ram ram ram ko pakhe ma ke uni......( mero ta western world le akha nai aando banai deiyecha) testo ramri kte jasle slc dekhi aafno khuta maa ubeki.....ani rup rang dekhi boli baachan pani ramri...............se was saving that special kiss for the special nite.......maile satyanash gari deeye....
tesaile ............khuruka nepal jaane kte khojne.............ani behe garne.......tara maile jasto nagarne.......tesaile maile decided........jhaat magani paat behe..ke

dherai sochyo bhane tension huncha

kta haru lai chaine catogary yehi ho

1. should love our mother like own mother
2. she should be like daughter in family
3. she should have proper knowladge of diligence and manner
4. she should respect all our respective
5. she should love her husband
6. she should be the women behind the sucess

tara, timi ekal kate raichau bhane arko kura..........hamile ne nari lai bujnu parcha....
uslai kahile haat uthaunu hudaina, ani kehi galti bhayo bhane hami le nai pahile mafi maagnu parcha, usko bhanawan ko kadar garnu parcha, uslai gabarjasti eekshya beeruda sex garnu hundain( that is rape). Usko assta ra maya lai kaayam garnu parcha, hamile uslai enough time dinu parcha, uslai yo nagaala tyo naagala bhanu hudaina ( like only sari and kurta suruwal), ahile ko jaamana ma we should give her personal freedom, kahile kai beechari lai ne khana paakara khuwanu, u shuld take her out for party and dance toghther.......loves goes stronger.....etc etc

behe garne bhaye dekhi aau.........ekai jaage maa basu
kaso

कोइराला सरलाई साथीभाईले अन्तरघात गरिदिए क्याहो ? नत्र जापानमा PHd गर्न ठिक्क परेको ठिटोको यस्तो सुद्धी कहाँबाट पलायो हँ ?

PHd=PhD

ya moneyMinded, that WAS pretty stupid...i guess you were trying to see if it was "in her kiss," as the cher (who i am not a fan of) song goes.....but i see that it has brought you wisdom...i agree completely when you say that you are looking for a daughter for your mother...good going and good luck to you man. dont mess up this time....

Koiralji
If you wanna define her responsibilities as moneminded sugges, pls define your responsibilities too n' don't forget to look at ourself. We aim higher n' we often forget that we might not deserve for the best some time. Like if we r look' 4 gorgeous polite gal, then what qualities do we possess to deserve that best girl? The matchmaking often go in a way as the one is look' for employees (with some sort of qualifications).

We should never forget that she also has some sort of expectations and afterall don't ever hurt an innocent girl like moneminded explained.

Sajha guild has some good stories. Try this one:
http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=21
http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=9
http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=50

About a girl's feelings: http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=49

GOOD LUCK !

hahahahaha.... compaking marriage with having a meal at Mcdonalds.

At McDonalds they ask," would you like fries with that?"

Around here girls ask," would you like a baby with that?"


Bypass McDonalds and eat at a home... meaning go back to nepal and ask your parents to find you a wife.

PHD भनेको त पागल हुने को दबाई भनछन नि, के हो खास कुरा ?

moneyminded ko kuraa padhera malai ekdum ramailo lagyo
ma 22 chhu tai pani biha garna mann lagyo yaar
thats gr8 written

u day ko kuraa sorai aana satya ho ........
jhukkera pani usa ma bhako nepali keti bihe na gara.....they are all....done man.........i m sure abt that...i have analysed many ..there have been no exceptions..unless she is with u from the very beginning........kasyo u day ...n koirala ji????????

start dating some nepali girls in Japan, unless you have a childhood sweet heart from Nepal.

सबैलाई कार्तिक लागेछ। जय होस् !

कोईरालाजी, जापानमा केटी नै रैनछन् कि क्या हो? यो साझा पनि कस्तो केटी माग्ने ठाँउ भयो है। साझामा तपाईँले केटी पाउनु हुन्न, १००%। साझाका केटी तपाईँहामीलाई पत्याउने खालका हुन्नन् के, कस्तो कुरा नबुझ्नु भाको?

मेरो सल्लाह: नेपाल जानुस्। बाबाममीलाई सिधै भन्न अप्ठ्यारो लागे यसरी भन्नुस्
"बाबाममी बिहे गर्दा कति बर्षको हुनु हुन्थ्यो?" तपाईँको पहिलो प्रश्न।
"..." बाबाममीको जबाफ।
"म अहिले कति बर्खको भएँ, तपाईहरुलाई सम्झना छ?" तपाईँको दोस्रो सोधाई।
"..." बाबाको जबाफ।
" ल त्यसो हो भने, म यसैपाळी बिहे गर्ने" । बुबाममीले नाई भन्नु हुन्न।
अब घरमा कुरा मिलो।

अनि बुबालाई लिएर केटी खोज्न हिड्नुस्। तपाई शहरबजारको हो भने, गाँउ पस्नुस्। गाउँ ठाँउको हो भने गाउँमै बस्नुस्, शहरतिर नजानुस् नि फेरी मेरो जस्तो, पछि दु:ख पाउनु हुन्छ। केटी माग्दा म जापानमा पढेको, अझै ४/५ बर्ख जापानमै बस्छु (अहिलेलाई अलिक बढाएर भन्नुस् १/२ बर्ष) भन्नुस्, केटी त लाईन लाग्छन्।
एउटीलाई झ्याईँकुटी पार्नुस्, कार्तिकमै चाहीँ हैन नि फेरी, कससेकम् मंसिर सम्म त पर्खनुस्, यत्रो २९ बर्ख पर्खिनु भो, मुला १५ दिन पर्खनुस् है!

मैले देको सल्लाह काम लाग्यो भने, बिहे गरीसकेपछि मलाई यहि साझाबाट बिजुली चिठ्ठी पठाउनुस् है।
तपाईँको भलो चिताउने,
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