Koiralji If you wanna define her responsibilities as moneminded sugges, pls define your responsibilities too n' don't forget to look at ourself. We aim higher n' we often forget that we might not deserve for the best some time. Like if we r look' 4 gorgeous polite gal, then what qualities do we possess to deserve that best girl? The matchmaking often go in a way as the one is look' for employees (with some sort of qualifications). We should never forget that she also has some sort of expectations and afterall don't ever hurt an innocent girl like moneminded explained. Sajha guild has some good stories. Try this one: http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=21 http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=9 http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=50 About a girl's feelings: http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=49 GOOD LUCK !