deadbody, i dont know if you wrote that above paragraph just to impress Rekha, or you wrote it with total understanding of life and humanity.. You used big big words in there, so i beilive you know what you are talking about, so can you clear some of my thoughts, please? What is civilization? how do we become a civilized world and how do we know that we are civilized? how do we differniate right from wrong? what is humanity? how does one know, what is "true" good values and what is not? what are good morals? what are the Values of life? how do we become high thinkers, and give mutual respects? and lastly, but very important question i ask you, because all the disscussion here is being revolved around this statement, How does a person become a valued guy in the society? can you answer me :)