Lets say you marry this guy/girl from different caste, there is a big chance that your family might not accept him/her. I have seen things happen and I have been in that situation so I know how it feels not getting accepted. My dad is RAI and my mom is TAMANG so I'm half and half. In Nepal everyone takes their Dads family name and everything that comes along with it. I love being Rai and I would not change it for the world but the thing is I'm not totally 100% accepted my RAIs because my mom is TAMANG and I'm not accepted by TAMANGs because my dad is RAI. I don't want to pick one caste. I'm Proud of who I am and I love both side of my parents family. I just want to be excepted. Many time during my Childhood I did not get the same amount of love from my Dad's family because my mom is Tamang and they saw her as lower caste then them. My mom did not get much respect from her In-Laws. This whole freakin caste system sucks big time. Oh god I'm so pissed thinking about it I can go on and on and on...............