Posted by: Pharsi November 17, 2015
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MlnNpl,
I agree with you that the reason was not good to break up. My point was why would I be someone's 50% ? If she didn't have to meet me, she could have said that she didn't want to spend time with me. We would talk over night and when we both planned for spending time together, she would cancel it at the last moment. She did it 3 times, not once which raised my concerns. It was like there was something wrong.
When I came back, I even filed for her visa ( fiancée petition). But things started getting worse when she was going out with her friend but she said she wasn't going anywhere. Later, she texted me and said she was coming home which was kinda lying even it was a minor. I still don't know why had to act suspicious because I never told her not to hang out with her friends.
I know she may have had her logics behind her activities, but to me it was like she was concealing something. All these factors drive me crazy and make me hurt her verbally which I feel guilty about. And want to apologize to her for all my insanity but don't want to bother her by texting or calling her.
I will be visiting Nepal again in mid January and planning on meeting her and genuinely apologize to her for the things that I have done to her. Would it be okay to do so or just let it go and move on?
I agree with you that the reason was not good to break up. My point was why would I be someone's 50% ? If she didn't have to meet me, she could have said that she didn't want to spend time with me. We would talk over night and when we both planned for spending time together, she would cancel it at the last moment. She did it 3 times, not once which raised my concerns. It was like there was something wrong.
When I came back, I even filed for her visa ( fiancée petition). But things started getting worse when she was going out with her friend but she said she wasn't going anywhere. Later, she texted me and said she was coming home which was kinda lying even it was a minor. I still don't know why had to act suspicious because I never told her not to hang out with her friends.
I know she may have had her logics behind her activities, but to me it was like she was concealing something. All these factors drive me crazy and make me hurt her verbally which I feel guilty about. And want to apologize to her for all my insanity but don't want to bother her by texting or calling her.
I will be visiting Nepal again in mid January and planning on meeting her and genuinely apologize to her for the things that I have done to her. Would it be okay to do so or just let it go and move on?