Hello guys, I know this is not the right place to express personal problems like the one I have been going through for a few months. I and my girlfriend broke up a few months back and I was the reason behind this. It has been months but I can't forget her and this is ruining my life. This has greatly affected my personal, professional and educational life. A few days back she texted me and wished me a happy bhai tika. Does it mean she is changing her mind to come back to me? I know it's not good idea to text her or call her. But I still have strong feelings for her. How can I let her know that I want her back without making any contacts with her? Whenever I talk to another girl, she comes into my head which makes me stop talking to other girls. What would I do guys? Please throw some genuine opinions, they would be greatly appreciated.
Pharsi · Nov 16, 2015 2:33 PM · 47,293 views
sorry to hear that Dude, tara jane manche lai samjera kaam chaina.... we all know that, yaha ko life kasto huncha? yesto bela pani chodera jane sanga k expect garnu k ash le wait garchau.... move on buddy... tkcr
lin · Nov 18, 2015 12:37 AM
Yea, I know. I could be wrong in whole scenario, I may have misinterpreted her logics or answers or reacted unnecessarily or acted immaturely, but what I am saying or asking you guys is why do I feel guilty of hurting her (mostly texting her to ask for building trustable environment)and how can I get out of all the guilty feelings and enjoy my life.
Pharsi · Nov 18, 2015 10:57 AM
I will be short and to the point - She has a BF, and she met you becuase of her family pressure. Move on....keep some portion of your thank you to me just like 'lincoln' BTW, that text was just a reminder and fun (most probabaly send by her BF) and she probabaly enjoyed it too.....
STUPIDA · Nov 20, 2015 3:00 PM
It could be the case and that's what exactly I told her. Again, we had an hour long conversation yesterday which she initiated. Now I am in a better situation and yes I have move on to Her cousin.
Pharsi · Nov 20, 2015 4:54 PM
Glad to hear that Pharsi. Best wishes :)
MlnNpl · Nov 20, 2015 5:07 PM
MlnNpl, Thanks! All I wanted was to apologize to her for saying that she had a bf, and move on.
Pharsi · Nov 20, 2015 5:17 PM
i would say move on ... couple of months back, i was introduced to my mothers friends daughter... every time i tried to talk to her she always acted busy ... one question she always asked me was why have i not filed for citizenship yet... her mom always pressed that issue on me.... citizen citizen... she only talked when she wanted to .... if i was seeing her then she would have found out what kind of person i was .... since i was not .. i was upfront and honest about what kind of person i was ,, what i liked and what i did not like .... i don't make a lot of money by i do make decent amount of money ... then suddenly one day her mom told me that she was not interested ..... which was not the case when i met her ... she talked about how interested she was in getting to know me and all that bullshit ... later on i found out that she had applied for TPS and was approved and her approval notice came right at moment when she said NO.. this was the first time i realized how something could make you so sad while at the same time make u equally happy... all that woman wanted from me was to maintain her status to say in US ... she can say what she wants and come up with a million excuses ... it will not make a difference to me ... if that person is reading this you will probably know it... and by the way if you are reading this.... the banana i bought from walmart is probably bigger than you are #TrashTalk at the end all i will say to you is .... move on ... there are people who care about you and wish you well in life... the rest can F*** off... agree or not?
newton123 · Nov 21, 2015 12:58 AM
"plenty of fish in the sea" Nepali chicks are stuck up, don't understand why this is the case. I'm way too good looking for them. I prefer spanish hotties.
cp21 · Nov 21, 2015 9:29 AM
Newton123, I totally agree with you on this. I became too honest with her and made every moves genuinely because I wanted to marry her. I could have played the game pretty well, but I didn't. On the other hand, she tried to be smart with me, which I felt was not right. Yes, I have moved on and am feeling better without her in my life. I have spoken to her and discussed what went wrong and why. Now, I have nothing to feel guilty about. Cp21, Yes man, there are a lot but the one I want.
Pharsi · Nov 21, 2015 10:33 AM
Too good looking n prefer spanish ? Think u dont kno diff btw cream and scum
bairaghi · Nov 21, 2015 11:14 AM
She's not the one for you. Forgot her.
Power_Ranger · Nov 24, 2015 7:35 AM
What a waste of time with this girl! She actually told me the truth. How can someone manage two relationships, can't imagine it??
Pharsi · Dec 1, 2015 2:14 PM
Pharsi Jui,- I'm glad you are heading towards "Acceptance Phase".Well, it could be worse. You will just have to make the best of this. And hmmm, this is starting to look like a blessing in disguise. I'm glad this happened. - aba kuieko pharsi falera naya munto palaunu paryo.
no_more_crush · Dec 1, 2015 4:38 PM
Hahaahaha,, but nice cycle. I have been through all these phases mostly aggression. Agreed.
Pharsi · Dec 1, 2015 7:31 PM
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