The problem with coutries like US is that close friends live far away and it is hard to meet them. Texas, California, NEw York and then you are in the middle. Even if you live in a big city, time table doesn't match because of work hours. For shopping you need to have a vehicle and drive about 30 minutes to reach wal-mart or a mall. In US it is hard to get a good social life.  Unlike NEpal where you can call your friends and meet up in just 20 minutes, here in the US it's hard to do that. Trust me I have seen many like you and infact you could say I am one of you with weight problem, skipping classes and wanting to be in my room the whole day watching TV or surfing the internet. One thing that is keeping me alive is watching sports like college Basketball(following my college), NBA and sometimes NFL. It gives you a sense of virtual happiness and occupies your time. Try getting into some hobbies of you likeness and it would surely keep you a little happier. Sometimes i do webdesigning staying in my bed with a laptop and time just passes by while I wait to graduate. All you need to do now is have a plan for your life. My plan is to earn a little money buy some equipments from here and then go back to Nepal and do some modern businees stuffs. I would use my experience here in US and apply it in Nepal ( not necessary college knowledge).  The good thing is I will be back in Nepal and will  be living an easy life with dal and bhaat. Anyway welcome to mid-life crisis and just dont do anything stupid !~