Dhurmuse,

Lansing is just one hour drive from Grand Rapids. As Silicon said, there is a small Nepali community in "Greater Lansing" area and they have frequent get together. You will be able to meet almost all of them in every get togethers. I really miss those get togethers and those people. I personally don't know about Grand Rapids, but you can contact "East Lansing Nepali Community" on facebook and post your queries there.

Cheers

Sparty