u cant dictates destiny.........onself need change, but not to the extend of extremist point of turn....life always about comprehend and many....its about spirituals, dedication,idealism and comittment, interestingly u had t be articulates enough bout ur partakings spiritually.....such cooking is spiritual for sum one else point of view, writing also is sprituals in others thinking of action, even dancing and listen t music is healing spirituals for sum reason....in most vocation matters are spirituals.....

superficially oneself need  dose of responsibility upon duty of life , ultimately its the spiritual essence you had to added with to champion the metaphoric sufferings...