I don't know what to say, Sunita.....it was really sincere and I don't judge when it really comes from heart. No doubt, ur reading brought a moment of silence and thoughts.

One thing I never understood the idea of - marry somone who loves you, not the one who you love. The way I see this is that now you have to have a double co-incidence of want or may be you wanna say double coincidence of  like and love. the way I see things in case of marriage is that they are destined. No matter how hard you try and no matter what you do, you will marry that is already written somewhere, and it will continues what is needs to happen.

I don't know, but i always inclined  to the idea of arranged marriage. It's just a personal choice.

The only think I wished was - ur husband should have realized that we need money. It is so many things. Yet, it comes after family and relationship and ppl around you. But this is something you choose and everything comes with some cost,a nd sometimes ppl just forget the cost in the long run, while seeing the momentary benefits in the short run.

Well, If I have huart you in anyway, I am deeply sorry..........All I can do is wished that noone had to go through what you are dealing with @ present.