ha ha ha ha Sandhurst L! I second that bit about the Padma Laxmis! But me too am not a fan of flings outside marriage. There is something very distasteful about the whole idea and frankly it prolly wouldn't be worth the damage it causes. But I shouldn't put the cart before the horse - here I am talking about extra marital affairs but I haven't tied the darned knot yet... ha ha ha. I suppose affairs make for spicier conversation than marriage ... LOL. Oh well, let me not blabber anymore about a subject that I can't honestly say I have much expertise in. I ploughed through a few more pages on the book - I am really liking it. I might even post a review about it in my blog once I get done. Amazing, SL - As for Kathmandu Spice, I want to give both of you a straight answer, but this is what my wicked half is telling me to say: Coke : $2.00 Tip : $4.00 Buffet: $8.95 The joys of anonymity: priceless! :)