but a straight man can be attracted to an underage girl. then what? first get ur basics right. pedophilia is not a 'sexual orientation'. there is lots of difference between 'sexual orientation' and 'sexual perversion'. just look up their definitions. " okay if a man genuinely loves a cow", but does the cow genuinely love that man in this relationship? it would be an ok relationship if the cow also genuinely loves that man with similar feelings. otherwise it is abnormal. this is the crux of this whole issue. hope u've understood.