I find that I'm not good at being "flirty" with a girl who isn't clearly interested in me back or being flirty with me. For example, I have been talking to a girl right now. I've talked to her twice and she is very lovely and funny her laugh drives me crazy... but could'nt make any sort of move. On the other hand, I'm not sure if she likes me, and so when I go in for a move. I'll have to take a chance of course. At the time it'll be more obvious...But anyway, I digress. What little flirty things can I say to spice things up and see where she stands?

I find I'm pretty good at it with girl-friends because there's no REAL interest, so I'm 100% confident and I can make women laugh that way, since I can't lose (through not really wanting to go out with them). I need to somehow translate this for women I AM interested.

Hey Harkey dai ur awesome man. I have tons of thanks to you!! I never thought in such a minute detail about things that are needed to be taken into consideration (may be i was deeply involved into studies). You have provided me with excellent tips!, could you also reply to my specific questions (such as time factor and telling her friend that u like/love her). Can you imagine a situation where a young scientist (25 years old) is interested to date a freshman undergraduate. The gal is more interested in traveling, singing and dancing, playing cards, watching movies, doesn't want to talk much about career, and the guy is somehow different serious about his career and wants to see himself as a successful scientist and working hard to get tenure track in coming years. I think I am in difficult situation now!!! Looking forward to ur suggestions?.

Nut

I am sorry Birkhey dai, i mispronounced you as harkey dai!!! Never mind hai!!

Oh damn. The parody of love. LOL

"Virr bata khasna lako "goru" lai ram ram bhanna sakincha"

Ram ram Ram ram
In jest,
IndisGuise:)

Indisguise, u flirty guy, u used to tail ruina everywhere. what happened to your purano prem?

Nuts!!
since you are scientist.. and its and experiment.. do not forget to resolve the impact of every little things which are included in the experiement... and i know you can do it.. thats what you have been practising and wont be a trouble i am sure about it...

major precautions:

1) never try to explain the scietific reason she would definately dont want to hear about how your cells are doing in culture media.. or what stupid mistake you did with the cutting enzyme and you clone the wrong genetic code... i hope you got it..

2) do not say you like Sajha.com and their discussion forum...
hehehehehehe

rest are coming later.... birkhe is giving you good protocol... but you can do some minor modification to get better result...
like maybe she likes to listen about the pearl necklace that you gave her on valentine that the talking about her jeans.... .. you should be a good observer... hehehe
rest later..

Pade queen ji :)

Now that you've unsealed my raw wounds :(, let me go on the record to say that, it wouldn't be inappropriate to imply that "regarding me 'tailing' ruina, the feeling was MUTUAL" ;)

Aba baki rahyo, uu kaha cha bhanne kuro.
Uu jaha kahi cha.. yaha cha waha cha maan ma cha taan ma CHAINA :(.

Past coupla weeks have been quite hectic. Thus, we lost eachother in translation :(.

Anyways, hope she can hear the silent cries of mah heart ;)

Now if that has subsided your curiosity, shall we move on to your "dreams" about IF. LoL

In jest,
IndisGuise:)

Mr. NUT

if you are really serious about her...then all these things whatever i said is bull shit..man u can't keep on doing all these things whole your life...sooner or later u will be fade off...so just be yourself and present youreself to her...one thing is sure that every gal needs attention, praise and care..but do that if it comes from inside your heart...don't portray ur fake impression otherwise u willl have to do that through out ur life....and i m sure u can't do that..so just be urself to her...
If c feels ur love and if u r meant to be together then nothing on earth can seperate you no matter what...
but if you r looking just for flirt then follow my tips i bet u will thank me one day...
But if c is already in relation don't do those things..coz u will be doing fake care and c will consider it as real and start thinking negative to her present relation..that will ruin her and her present bf....man u got to pass through that agony to feel how it hurts when someone who u love very much leaves u for no reason....

let love find you..doesn't try to find love....this is the best thing...if u want to be serious..if u want to flirt..there are thousands rules...coz gals are like wax..u just need to make urself hot to cut it....

enjoy

appreciate the truth birkhe!!!

Rythuuuuuuu...
maalai pani help garne ho ki hoina???
:p

Hey red....

timilai k help chahiyo.. timilai ta ma all you need help dinchu... oki go on and keep your heart out!!

hello from Dallas Texas

Sara Desh Ajadi Ke Jung Pe Lagi Hui Hai Aur Tumhe Flirt Aaaa Raha Hai?? Gadhe.

rythm, aba k k magum?

Birkhhey dai and Coffee, Thank you guys a lot for your excellent suggestions. I just came from her apartment and in the way to my apartment i have decided to end my part of effort to make her realize that i take care of her. I think now the ball is in her court. I think if she is not that much smart to perceive my signals then i should conclude that either she is not interested to me (or hesitate to go forward with a scientist) or she is not someone of my match/type or vice versa. I know once should not bring Science and Love together, they are interiorly separate entities. But again, being trained as a scientist, I always try to anticipate ultimate result (or final destination). I just don?t want to fish around and kill my time. So even if my decision hurts my heart I have to make it and take it easily I know I can not be someone like Dev Das and Romeo et al, they were different creatures!!! (Anyway, to become someone like them you need to have your partner equivalent to theirs right!!).

Nut

Glad to see this is being helpful to someone else.

To my flower,
When I'am single I want you
When I'm not I will still want you
When you ignore me I will still look forward hearing from you
I will never marry cause I'll will be always waiting for you.

Please give me a sign, i am waiting.

Lau Eurotrip... what fantasy world are u living in?
I mean no offenses meant... tara the way you say... when I am nt single I will still be liking you re ani I wont marry re..

There is a Universal truth about relationships...as long as you dun spend huge quality time with your partner.. your love is SELFISH....
you like a gal.. and want her to like you... kina ki U have a desire to be with her.. and tommorow if you find someone who u like better.. u'll forget the first gal...

plus... y should u ruin the life of some other gal for ur selfishness? I mean if you still have ONE gal in your mind.. y go for someone else? you arent doing justice to that gal.. I mean when guys like this gal and say.. "I like you but there is this other gal I can never forget and will continue to love her"...

Dang.. thats all bullshit!! I mean what rights do u have to play with someone's life?? So the things you said may be true in the fantasy world.. but it aint real dude!!

P.S.. red.. lau k magum bhanya.. tell me your situation and i'll tell you what to do.. abba magney ho bhanney chahi go to some other department... I have no idea what u are tokin abt!!

Rythm sis.....let them bark lol.

bow wow wow yippie aai yippie yay
bow wow wow yippie aai yippie yay

matrixrose, im barking!lolol
aba rythm le ke magne re!
aba magna ta k cha k k
magera sadhya chaina

bow wow wow yippie aai yippie yay
bow wow wow yippie aai yippie yay

matrixrose, im barking!lolol
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Kun type of wow wow paryo kah? kuni ? LOL.