Hey Harkey dai ur awesome man. I have tons of thanks to you!! I never thought in such a minute detail about things that are needed to be taken into consideration (may be i was deeply involved into studies). You have provided me with excellent tips!, could you also reply to my specific questions (such as time factor and telling her friend that u like/love her). Can you imagine a situation where a young scientist (25 years old) is interested to date a freshman undergraduate. The gal is more interested in traveling, singing and dancing, playing cards, watching movies, doesn't want to talk much about career, and the guy is somehow different serious about his career and wants to see himself as a successful scientist and working hard to get tenure track in coming years. I think I am in difficult situation now!!! Looking forward to ur suggestions?. Nut