Mr. NUT if you are really serious about her...then all these things whatever i said is bull shit..man u can't keep on doing all these things whole your life...sooner or later u will be fade off...so just be yourself and present youreself to her...one thing is sure that every gal needs attention, praise and care..but do that if it comes from inside your heart...don't portray ur fake impression otherwise u willl have to do that through out ur life....and i m sure u can't do that..so just be urself to her... If c feels ur love and if u r meant to be together then nothing on earth can seperate you no matter what... but if you r looking just for flirt then follow my tips i bet u will thank me one day... But if c is already in relation don't do those things..coz u will be doing fake care and c will consider it as real and start thinking negative to her present relation..that will ruin her and her present bf....man u got to pass through that agony to feel how it hurts when someone who u love very much leaves u for no reason.... let love find you..doesn't try to find love....this is the best thing...if u want to be serious..if u want to flirt..there are thousands rules...coz gals are like wax..u just need to make urself hot to cut it.... enjoy