I am new to sajha. I heard pretty good things about it, hence am here. But what I see is only about 2% (approx, haven't done a research) of the total threads are worth a read, which leads me to conclude:

* Only about 2% of the total users are mature.

* Rest are into "What you had for lunch", "Person above me"(have no idea what is that about), "My favorite body parts" and all.....

Is sajha always like this, or best days are yet to come? Or shall I change myself, or shall I quit it for good?

so now you're saying that your threads are going be very worth of, and so it deserves special attention from users. Don't users have the right to determine what is worth?

हह्हाहाहा, बडा आयो भलादमि मान्छे, साझा मा । "सौ चुहे खाकर बिल्ली हज पे निकले" भने जस्तो ।

of course! I am not denying that users should be given the privilege to decide what is worth. This thread is meant to be directed to the users. Let's use common sense and post more sensible threads. Tetti ho. Otherwise, why is admin silent? What's his duty?

I am seeing that some posters are resorting to personal attacks and name calling.

IS THIS WHAT THIS SITE ABOUT?

. No offence but My own understandingsii
--->What did you have for lunch - Why not sms your bf/gf and ask/tell him/her. Why sajha?
---This we do because we miss food back home!! and most of us are anonymous here and we share our mutual love for food there!!

--->>Person above me - Why not email him/her and know more about him/her in person?
---This is the thread where we unknown frens get frenly with each other, most of ppl there don't know each other but still they treat each other as frens from ages; thats the spirit down there!! Home away from home it is!! Come join us and have fun!!

--->>>My favorite body parts - Why not look into the mirror and keep your penny with yourself?
Mine is eyes!! What say u??..:p
--->>>>A gift for my valentine - Why not use the time of coming in sajha to going to a gift shop? EXPLORE!
--- There are times when u seek help from frens but frens are no where around!! and u opt for some virtual frens; and voila there they are to offer their two cents!! u get to know ur options better!! See a clear vision u know!!!

Well I agree that there must be serious discusiions, but always serious thing is not good too!! There must be fun in between the talks!! Even einstein would take break from his works!!
And what probabaly is wrong with having some fun in between the lines!!!
INNIT??
:) Just my two cents!!
P.S.- It seems that I have this report to do But I seem to deviate a lot..:(..Ciao all
"ऊ ठाले रे, ऊ ठाले, मुज्को नै - साझा डोट कम को" :डि ---Courtesy One and only Theesu..:D

godzilla bro......if you think you can come up with a sensible thread then u r always welcome ...come with one we will be more sensible to give u a sensible response.........so let me see what u got?
peace

Juggy: hmm....I agree with you. Everybody needs a break! What I am seeing though is the number of light threads in sajha is too much of a break for a person. Ideally, 2-3 threads out of 15 good threads can be personal, okay agreed! What I am seeing is the opposite.

And there is one more "Where is Oys_chill ?"- Now is he/she president of US or something? Why are we after someone? Email him/her, can't we?

Am grossly disappointed hence this thread. Nothing personal!

If you want to find diamonds, you have to dig deeper with patience, there might be unwanted rocks and mud around but you have no choice other than to ignore them.

And remember, what one considers a diamond might be a mere stone for another person, and vice versa, especially in Sajha. So, why feel offended by others' diamonds though you see them just as lumps of black carbon?! ;)

How much time do you spend of a day doing 'sensible' thing?
What is sensible and what is not sensible?
What thread is sensible one?

You know what? drinking alcohol at work is not sensible. Commands from army brother in your house is not sensible. Joking too much with your parents is not sensible. But acting like parents to your friends is not sensible..

Honestly, I am sooo eager to see your 'sensible' thread.

Godzilla,
Dude u r seeking too much attention... sandwiched .. admin blah blah yakata yakata . Find ur own 2% friends like u, start ur own sajha ..... if we r dumb for you .... we are happy being dumb, u self proclaimed cream of nepalese society.
Einstein, if ur thoughts are that important, publish it ..... why waste time in sajha ..... u will make money on top of that. We will buy it and feel honored that we met this guy online once.

Have a good day

World_map and Copycat:
Sure. I am going to be around for few more days. If I see this pattern changing to good, I will stay. Else am quitting. Not that it matters, there are plenty of users already to fill the pocket of the admin with glory. But am just disappointed at the level of maturity of we, nepalese. It reflects from sajha. I am not recommending it to anyone. Will see. If I feel like, am coming with good threads (worth a read) next week.

मैले सुनेको नाम ले नै ५०% काम जनाउछ रे । राम्रो नदेख्ने पुरानो रोग लागेको मान्छेको चस्मा फेरेर हुन्न, आँखा नै फेर्नु पर्छ । साझा एक प्रहर बिताउने हो भन्ने, अनेक ज्ञान बिज्ञानका महारथिहरुका धागाहरु छन्, किन आँखा लगाउनु पर्‍यो आफुलाइ मन नपरेको धागो मा । नास् जी ले टासेको फोटो चाँही हेर्ने अनि यस्तो अश्लिल फोटो टास्यो भनेर भक्कु गाली गर्ने नेपाली रोगको नराम्रो संक्रमण भएको ब्यक्तिको अभिब्यक्ती जस्तो लाग्यो मलाई त । अस्तु!

And one more thing. I am sure my remarks have offended many. But I least care about it at the moment. I am just looking for a good change and if it's a sin, tell me, I am ready for an apology. Else, reality always bites!

Quit now re kya...
instead of yakking too much
save your precious time :-)

that's my 2 cents

--->>>But am just disappointed at the level of maturity of we, nepalese. It reflects from sajha. I am not recommending it to anyone. Will see. If I feel like, am coming with good threads (worth a read) next week. <<<---
Well I was trying to be as nice I could be with you!!
Now U have called all Nepalese immature (maybe including yourself); What maturity you have, can you show us please??
And recommending this site to anyone, as if this site needs recommendations, we are here since very long....very very long that is!!... And We are happy here as a unit as
Hami Sabaiko sajha
And changing pattern of thread!! It is going to be like this!! if u can come up with some better idea then come up and show us some maturity if u really have some!!
If not then just do what your heart say!!
and if u going to resort to name calling again then:

>>>If I see this pattern changing to good, I will stay<<<

Godzilla,
The pattern will NOT change. You have to adjust yourself according to the pattern and get what you need and throw away what you don't. And there are times when you find lots of good threads in a row and sometimes you will find series of not-so-useful threads.

So, staying for a few days more is not enough, we have stayed her for a few years, and know the nature of sajha. You might had too many expectations before coming here, so you seem disappointed, but sajha is like our life, we cannot have all the happiness in two days. Each day comes with happiness, sorrow, joy, anger, and every other emotions. Sajha is analogous to life.

Ok, have a nice one! Good night.

Mr. Sensible Godzilla,
lage raho..that's all I have to say..

Godzilla,

Where does this thread that you create fall under? The 2% or the 98%?

Let's see where you stand :)

Juggy pissed off :-O
:-O

work on your paper Mr. Director :-P

World_map: You seem to be a good, sensible user with lots of patience. If one has to wait for 2 years to see the goodness of sajha, then it's not for me. Sorry! I will be around until next week for sure.