I am so depressed now a days. nothing seems right for me. Any suggestion will be appericiated. Happy New Year to u all.

Sadbuttrue,
So what if you quit school, what is success?Can you tell me? Can you point out a single person who is successful?Who knows about his/her destiny?You are human, being a human your ego comes in that package.Doping, who does not do it? Where is Black Hole? What remedy?
Come to me, I will give you two tight slaps on your cheeks and then a huge hug. That is all you need.
THIS IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. IT IS NEVER TOO LATE FOR ANYTHING.WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY ON THE RITE TRACK.
AND WHAT IS THIS SALUTE THING?? WHY TO SALUTE PEOPLE LIKE US? HUH...who the hell are we ? MOVE ON & SALUTE YOURSELF!

One approach is called the three C's: Commitment, Control and Challenge.

Commitment
Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success. Be enthusiastic.

Control
Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.

Challenge
Be courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don't look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.

Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

Research shows that,
"... people who begin consciously to modify their inner conversations and assumptions report an almost immediate improvement in their performance. Their energy increases and things seem to go better ..."

Commitment, control and challenge help build self-esteem and promote positive thinking. Here are some other suggestions.

Cleo,

You suppose to be mad with Kukur LOOTE but not with Saant Sayami. I think We all ( including you) trying to help sadbuttrue as much as we could and from what we know. Any way you were very nice to sadbuttrue.Sadbuttrue Must be hungry by now, call him for Dinner one more time, he is waiting for your invitation. But Make sure tie LOOTE first some where in Bathroom. He is drinking too much today.

sorry for a little degression from the topic but,

Californication,
dude you are my nepali brother. i am loote in sajha and that was MY choice and i am happy with it. please hug me ....i am no different from your own brother :-)....

*spreads his arms*

now don't keep me waiting hai! :-)

LooTe

Loote,

Your are always nice. it was Cleo who said LOOTE is degrade. Hmmmmm

hahaha...cali bro,
leave it bro. you cannot make everyone happy ke. my pop tells me that. i have always tried to make everyone happy at the cost of hurting myself tara one way or the other people do tend to get hurt ke... chill out hai...cleo is a nice person trust me, and so are you!

you have a great new year...god bless u

LooTe

Loote,

i am sure she is nice, ofcourse your choice ( was). lol

Hi Cleo,

You said that I have Depression.
So would you invite me for a Dinner??
That would be great to begin a New year with.....

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Hi cleo..

Anyway Happy New Year to you...!!

Lots of sunshine...with a big smile..
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sadbuttrue .. thats a song from metallica and i love it!

aite, to overcome depression . you've done the right thing! SHARE! and you must be feeling a sort of relieved having seen people care about you like this . However , what we can all do is suggest , actions - you'd have to come to .. yourself!

Fight Depression! Everything will be just as fine ,if you are true to making it fine. If it takes time .. wait ..

And stop thinking about it anymore.. :) Good Luck! F(CK DEPRESSION. how'd that sound huh? ;)

It's a popular book. But do some research about the former leader of Evangelicals!

Do some research ? duh!

G Int http://www.cbc.ca/world/story/2006/11/05/evangelical-confession.html

It is sold in millions but i don't recommend the book. Seen lot of Evangelicals switching and are in it for networking; just quoting few ppl i know.

Cool !

Dear Sadbuttrue,
Common man. there's nothing wrong with being alone. I am alone too. I have 4 lovers but I am alone. This is life man. You can get opportunity to understand yourself when you are alone. Education is important but is that useful in life to apply. Sometimes yes but it is all about making money , isn't it? I am an ordinary human being. Please don't think a lot. Time will everything. I was also depressed a lot and confused about life. But again, there's nothing we can change about. Everything thing will be alright one day.
I am not sure but one of the reason may be dope for your depression. Have you any thought in this regard? What about limiting the dose?

Upto you man. Life is unfair. Take it easy man.

Depressed! read a nepali novel called 'handiko muukh'. you will be fresh always

Kasto..Name yar..hahaha i like that keep it coming " Handi ko Mukh""

you made my day budray thnx. But i won't read the book and am not dprssd yet.

eat some good healthy food...wise people say that the food you eat affects the way you think...if you always feel too lazy to cook, then you have some problem...hmmm...there are many reasons for one to get depressed so get yourself diagnosed if you just can't get over it. if you can't find any reason, see if it's the attitude towards life that needs to be changed...

I THINK THIS "INTERRUPTED GIRL" WILL MAKE A BORING WIFE. FULL OF LECTURES WHICH NO GUY LIKES.
POOR UNFORTUNATE GUY.
AND THIS HANDI KO MUKH WAS LIKE A HANDI ON BUDRAY'S HEAD.