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Posted on 12-09-07 2:05 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hello all suitable single guys out there, where do you go to meet your other half? I am in my late 20s and after getting so many pressure from my family, I decided to look for my own Mr. right.
Yeah, I was a little on pressure but I also think this is the time. I am well educated and have a stable job. I am not looking for anyway to change my status. And again, I do not think that should be the only reason to get married.
This is my first time looking for my Mr. Right but I do not know how to start. I checked out neaplmatrimonial.com but somehow it looks like just an extended version of shaadi.com for small audience of Nepal.
So if you think you know something about how to proceed, give me suggestions.
Thanks


 
Posted on 12-09-07 1:41 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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hey natali,  i know what you are saying.  though i am a guy, i am also similar boat.  i have masters degree and descent job here in usa.  i went to nepal recently to get married and met few people back home.  like you said, i could not marry a girl just by meeting her once, i wanted to know more about her, but that is not possible when you dotn have enough time.  some even told me what is the proof of my job in usa and all.  some said they dont want a guy who lives in foreign and can not trust him.  but there are people who can fit into our category as well, like educated, understanding and all.  well, things have changed a lot since we were young.  these things like a girl should marry a guy if he earns or/and has better acamedic qualification.  well, it is not necessary. i think guys of this new generation know all this stuffs and would love to marry you and come here as independent or dependent and make career here.  so, dont worry too much.  matter of fact, one of my friend (girl) is going to nepal to meet a guy of her parent's wish.  so, it is possible.  i guess, nepali girls here in usa should understand that there are good and educated guys in nepal as well and they can come here and stay with you or make career here. 

there are so many guys who are looking for suitable girls here  and vice versa.  but because of lack of networking, they never get to meet potential candidates.  usa is so big and its not uncommon to not to met potential candidate.  anyways, if you can not find a suitable candidate here, explore your option in nepal as well.  good luck.  by the way, 24 is not late. 


 
Posted on 12-09-07 2:57 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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it'd be pretty interesting to be accidentally meeting up with mr.right than looking for him all over, oh thats brutal..and wots with the parental pressure of having to get married at 24?! btw can you not find a guy anywhere else though.. ?! well ya we have a lot of guys on this website but they're all weirdos. 

uhh goodluck finding the right guy girly

 


 
Posted on 12-09-07 2:59 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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well yeah you can't really get too close with people at schools, parties, malls, places unless you TRY to actually but how about a tv reality show like tila tequila's LOL. amazinn.


 
Posted on 12-09-07 3:26 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Man this topic is right on money. Many people here in USA are in search of real love.  where i work it is 85% female and 15% male. I am not bragging but to tell u the truth I have dated whites, blacks but not too many Asians. Whites and black folks I could not fit with their family and life structure and I have even found some of my white GF family being stereotype. Anyway the bottom line is I do feel Easy with Asian girls. But who is the right one?  Unless u talks and try to be friend with people u won't know their behavior, likes and dislikes, which might cause a real problem after marriage. BUT our culture girls are so shy to approach guys; they can't even express their feelings to the one they love. And here hero end up marrying another girl. TALK, TALK, TALK, open yourself up make friends, your Mr. Right is somewhere around you. Find him and call it a day. By the way email me if u like to be my friend. Neuro.  


 
Posted on 12-09-07 4:26 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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This request points  need of a Nepali Dating Service (website) in USA.
 
Posted on 12-09-07 5:04 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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>>>They respect women, give them time to do their personal stuffs and even help them in the kitchen.... This may seem such small things but very much deeply count to women life.

Natali1, I think this statement is slightly exaggerated. I am not sure if I live with a random sample of Nepalis to make a strong statement one way or the other, but I think there is a wide variation in the types of Nepali men even here in the U.S., ranging from those who invite guests and play cards in the living room the entire time while their wives cook in the kitchen, to those who really seem to care about their wives and do not hesitate to show it. So, I am not sure if you can generalize all Nepali men in the U.S. being different from all men in Nepal! (I guess the bottom line is that do not rule out men in Nepal for this reason alone).

I am not in an intense search of "Miss Right" yet nor am I an expert on relationships/marriages :), but the more I come to think about it, the more I am inclined toward believing that meeting the person your parents find for you may be the best strategy to go about it. And an increasing number of people seem to go with that strategy nowadays (again, I can't claim to be around a random sample of Nepalis) which essentially is an intermediate between a fully arranged marriage and met-in-a-bar marriage. I think it makes sense also because, personally, as I grow older, I find myself moving away from the search for the big-breast-ed, big-butt-ed, cutest-face-d, Aisharya-Rai-like woman toward a charming, average-looking, practical girl--something that my parents would look for in a girl for me anyway!

Anyway, good luck with the search. I hope you meet Mr Right sometime soon. Would love to see your search end on a very happy note. Consider crashing a few random Nepali parties! And if you run into a 26 year old Nepali guy doing the same, feel free to guess who that is. :)



 
Posted on 12-09-07 6:16 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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give me ur details as to what kind of mr right u r looking for. I may be able to find one for you. I know lot of decent guys in US looing for female partners to marry.

If you do not hesitate, email me at hehehahahaha@yahoo.com

 
Posted on 12-09-07 11:13 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Shaadi ka laddu aisa
jo na khaye woh lalachaye
jo khaye woh pachhtaye ...

but for those who are hell bent on committing this harakiri, let me tell you, if you go looking for a Mr.Right (or Ms Right), chances are you will never find the one who has all the features you are looking for. So, just let the time take its course and you may come across someone whose feelings for you may "click" with your feelings for him.

OR, if you can't wait. Go to your parents and let them pick a "yogya purush" for you.

Amen.

 
Posted on 12-10-07 3:02 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Why don't you join facebook.com and network outthere.. You will meet 1000's of single guys outthere.
 
Posted on 12-10-07 5:28 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Personally in Nepal, they look at your family background before they look at your job and degree. It is all about family background. You may get girls who will marry for your green card. Honestly, most of the girls from good family background don't give dyam about your Green card. They know life here is more relaxed and better. If you can find some middle class, it will be good for you. Apart beautiful gals coming from good background is already dating someone. You should be able to accept them and their life style. If you are looking for one then look for Nepali leaving in India. They have good education and well cultured. They are more domesticated. Truly,  you don't want your wife " behen ji type" right.
Perhaps you may find upper class who goes to clubs, shops well and so far they have proper dining etiquette. I guess i talked more than i need.

One more thing if you had a family back in home, they will take care of it. I don't think Now in Nepal being oversea resident don't matter.



 
Posted on 12-10-07 7:53 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I am in the same situation as Natali1.


 
Posted on 12-10-07 8:06 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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24 is not late

 
Posted on 12-10-07 8:31 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I am sort of surprised at so many people responding to this thread. In the past, all threads seking someone for marriage have been ridiculed, but I guess its different when a woman seeks out a man and not vice versa. A lot of people would probably relate to Natali1, because in Nepal, as soon as you hit a certain age.. everyone.. not only your parents, start to pressure you about getting married. But to be honest, I dont see meeting Mr. Right by posting something in sajha. I bet guys will be looking forward to date you, meet you.. but I dont think they are going to have a wedding in mind when you first meet and get to know each other. When your parents look for someone, then the guy knows that the ultimate destination is marital bliss! Plus, you dont HAVE to get married to someone they choose, but that would certainly be a way of finding Mr. Right.
 
Posted on 12-10-07 9:32 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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ha ha ha !!! Haven't you heard ? That they don't exist ?

Or they only bat for thier own team ? Unless you find a Switch-Hitter. ha ha ha

Its like the Holy Grail or the Arc of the Covenet. He he

 
Posted on 12-10-07 9:53 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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uys, when i was living in detroit, one night i spent a lot to watch a nepali girl (who is a model back in nepal) stripping in a strip club. I had a lap dance with her and paid 20 bucks. she, herself told me there is another club where another nepai girl strips..i went there too, she said she is a student came here after winning DV lottery. that night i paid another 50 bucks for 3 lap dances (it was total 60 but got 10 promotional discount)...the next day, i with my 5-6 friends went to the border area of canada(i forgot the name, but its on the bank of the river bordering canada) it was weekend, my freinds took me to the place where we could see many nepali girls....wow, first time in US i met with almost 11 nepali girls together....some of them having fun smoking hookah..,...but poor us! most of them were with mexican and black guys...we only could say HI..nothing else.
I was missing cabin restaurant back in nepal a lot, after i found those nepai girls stripping there, i was so happy and said...o my ... O my....we can have a nepali taste anywhere in the world!!! we are developed now....no we dont have to miss nepal
anymore!!!!
so, guys i dont think if we became lucky and got one more chance to watch Muna's new video, its gonna be a surprise.....WE ARE NOT DEVELOPING, DEVELOPED ALREADY!
you did a good job man whoever has posted muna's video....only people like you can develop nepal...

 


 
Posted on 12-10-07 10:01 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Nepalese in USA are disgrace to Nepal and others Nepalese from other countries.

just look at you people...................from Muna video, to lap dancing, from F1/DV never ending battle of words to Nepalese working at strip club, to fashion shows at ANA, ....well what more can i ask?

Nepalese in other countries are more civilize and Nepalese in them have not been lost unlike Nepricans!

 

 

 


 
Posted on 12-10-07 10:18 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I don't know what kind of advice or suggestion to give to the people searching for Mr right and miss right. Just accept the word from your parent and you will be happy for ever. I mean arrange marriage. THere will be strong love after marriage. Beleive me.


 
Posted on 12-10-07 10:42 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Krishh,

Ek Damai Thullooo Kaam GARISH GADHA !! We do not need to know how you got Siphilis Either NUMNUTS!!!!

 
Posted on 12-10-07 10:42 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Posted on 12-10-07 11:03 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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You have spoken the reality. Thanks, you cleared my doubt too..

 



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