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mai_chori_sudari
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Posted on 11-06-07 8:31
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All the Nepalese BOYS in the US are "BOKA". What do you think gals? C'mon, lets share your views. Just see the posts in sajha...."gal needed to marry", "gal needed to share apt", "my gf dumped me", "himani ko ...pic"... hareeeeeeeeeeeee!!!
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Posted on 11-06-07 8:48
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Women are looking for a husband like this, and see what happens even after they get the man they want.
Identity crisis
By Rekha Acharya
What do you buy for a woman who has everything? My close friend was celebrating her 30th birthday and I was in a fix. She has everything- a doting husband who showers her with diamonds and pearls, brilliant kids, luxurious house decorated in white and easy lifestyle. She goes to the gym, does social work, buys beautiful things for her house and comes home on time for her family. No wonder women envy her luck.
So, when I finally bought a gift and took the happy woman out for lunch on her birthday, I was quite disappointed. This quiet woman in front of me was neither happy nor glowing.
"I hate my husband." She told me and I stared at her speechless trying to think of why anybody would hate a man who gave her a diamond bracelet this morning and surprised her with tickets to Hawaii scheduled for next week.
She was one of those women whose desire to make their men happy is so strong, and yet whose self-worth is so low that they soon become a shadow with no identity. When she opens her mouth most often it is her husband's views, thoughts and even phrases coming out. She always wears blue because her husband says that she looks good in blue. There are so many such small things that had changed her life and changed her forever.
What did the dear husbands think in the process? "Life is good and we are a happy family. My wife and I have shared views and she really values my experience." Is that it? So, if it is such a happy family with shared views, why are so many women after years of marriage starting to resent their husbands like my friend and probably like me in a few years? My friend has given the power to her husband to make her decisions like so many other women. In the long run, resentment and pent up desires surfaced. Wishes that had been buried for a long time started to take root and the woman started hating the one thing that had been the reason for her sacrifices-her husband.
A world renowned family counselor, Martha Hankinson suggests "Stop the resentment before it begins. Stop taking yourself for granted and be proud of who you are. Make small steps in regaining what you have lost. Don't lose your family in the process but let them join in the joy of discovering you".
But, my friend has not yet reached a place where she feels comfortable with herself maybe because she has been a 'nobody' for too long. It is scary for her to take her own decision and she feels lost many times. I am not sure about her feeling for her husband now. She is working on it and yes, she is looking great in white, black and orange these days!
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Riten
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Posted on 11-06-07 8:54
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Keta haru boka bhaye, keti haru bakhri.
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mai_chori_sudari
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:00
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But still, gals dont show their so called bakhripan, in the open concerts...la! Boka always start dropping their saliva everytime, anywhere in the mamla of 'KT'.
Recently I got a big mail from one guy in Nepal, with attached CV,...proposing for marriage, whom I dont know. Also gone thro a sajha posting from someone 'krish' khulle-aam begging for a gal. Wat a stupid idea??
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sumedhu
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:07
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репреп% рдиреЗрдкрд╛рд▓реА рдЖрдЗрдорд╛рдИ рд╕рдлрд▓ рд▓реЛрдЧреНрдиреЗрдХреЛ рдЬреАрд╡рдирдмрд╛рдЯ рдЖрд░реНрдерд┐рдХ, рднреМрддрд┐рдХ рд░ рд╢рд╛рд░реАрд░рдХ рд╕реБрдЦрдХреЛ рдЪрд╛рд╣рдирд╛ рд░рд╛рдЦреНрдЫрди рд░ рдорд╛рдерд┐ рд░реЗрдЦрд╛ рдЖрдЪрд╛рд░реНрдпрд▓реЗ рд▓реЗрдЦреЗрдХреЛ рдХреБрд░рд╛рдорд╛ рддреНрдпрддрд┐ рдзреЗрд░реИ рд╕рддреНрдпрддрд╛ рдЫ рдЬрд╕реНрддреЛ рд▓рд╛рдЧреНрджреИрди ред рдзреЗрд░реИ рдХреЗрдЯреАрдХрд╛ рдЖрдорд╛рдмрд╛рдмреБ рд╕рдореНрдкрдиреНрди рдкрд░рд┐рд╡рд╛рд░рдХреЛ рдХреЗрдЯрд╛ рдЦреЛрдЬреНрдЫрди рд░ рдХреЗрдЯреА рддреНрдпрд╣реА рдХреБрд░рд╛рдорд╛ рдЖрдлреНрдиреЛ рднрд╛рдЧреНрдп рджреЗрдЦреНрдЫрдиреН редрд╡рд┐рд╡рд╛рд╣рдХреЛ рд╣рдирд┐рдореБрди рд╡рд░реНрд╖ рдкрдЫрд┐ рдХреЗрдЯрд╛рдХреЗрдЯрд┐ рдЬрдиреНрдореЗрдкрдЫрд┐ рдкреНрд░рдерд╛рдорд┐рдХрддрд╛рдорд╛ рдкрд░рд┐рд╡рд░реНрддрди рдЖрдЙрдБрдЫ ред рдкрдЫрд┐ рдмреИрд╡рд╛рд╣рд┐рдХ рдЬреАрд╡рдирдорд╛ рдЕрдкреЗрдХреНрд╖рд┐рдд рд▓рд╛рдореЛ рд╕реБрдЦ рдкрд╛рдЙрди рдирд╕рдХреНрдиреБ рдЕрд▓рдЧ рдХреБрд░рд╛ рд╣реБрдирд╕рдХреНрдЫ ред рд╣реБрдирдд рдпреЛ рдХреБрд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рдХрд┐ рдорд╛рдиреНрдЫреЗрд▓рд╛рдИ рдЬреЗ рдХреБрд░рд╛ рдкреНрд░рд╛рдкреНрдд рднреИрд╕рдХреНрдпреЛ , рддреНрдпреЛ рдХреБрд░рд╛рд▓реЗ рд▓рд╛рдореЛ рд╕рдиреНрддреБрд╖реНрдЯрд┐ рдкрдХреНрдХреИ рджрд┐рдБрджреИрди , рдЙрд╕рд▓реЗ рдЕрд░реВ рдЕрдкреНрд░рд╛рдкреНрдп рд╕реБрдЦ рдЦреЛрдЬреНрдЫ ред рд╣реБрдирд╕рдХреНрдЫ , рдЕрд╕рдиреНрддреБрд╖реНрдЯ рд╣реБрдиреБрдкрд░реНрдиреЗ рдХреБрд░рд╛рд╣рд░реВ рдЕрд░реБ рдиреИ рдкрдирд┐ рд╣реБрдирд╕рдХреНрдЫрдиреН ред рддрд░ рд╕рдореНрдкрдиреНрдирддрд╛ рднрд┐рддреНрд░рдХрд╛ рдЕрд╕рдиреНрддреБрд╖реНрдЯрд┐рд╣рд░реВрдХреЛ рдкреНрд░рдХрд╛рд░ рднрд┐рдиреНрди рдЦрд╛рд▓рдХреЛ рд╣реБрдиреНрдЫ рдХрд┐рдирднрдиреЗ рддреНрдпрд╣рд╛рдБрдХреЛ рдЬреАрд╡рди рд░ рдЬреАрд╡рдирд▓рд╛рдИ рдЕрдкрдирд╛рдЙрдиреЗ рддрд░рд┐рдХрд╛ рдиреИ рд╡рд┐рдЪрд┐рддреНрд░рдХреЛ рд╣реБрдиреНрдЫ ред
рддрд░ рдХреЗрдЯрд╛рд╣рд░реВ рдмреЛрдХрд╛ рд╣реБрди рднрдиреЗ рдХреЗрдЯреА рдмрд╛рдЦреНрд░реА рднрдПрдирдиреН рдд рдирд┐ ? рд╕реНрд╡рд╛рднрд╛рд╡реИрд▓реЗ рдХреЗрдЯрд╛ рдЬрд╕реНрддреЛ рдПрдХреНрд╕рдкреНрд░реЗрд╕рд┐рдм рдХреЗрдЯреА рдирд╣реЛрд▓рд╛рдиреН рддрд░ рдореИрд▓реЗ рджреЗрдЦреЗрдХрд╛ рдмрд┐рджреЗрд╢рд┐рдПрдХрд╛ рдиреЗрдкрд╛рд▓реА рдХреЗрдЯреАрд╣рд░реВрдХреЛ рд╡рд╛рд╕реНрддрд╡рд┐рдХ рдЪрд╛рд▓рдврд╛рд▓, рдЪрд░рд┐рддреНрд░ рд░ рд╡реНрдпрд╡рд╣рд╛рд░ рдХреБрдиреИ рдмрд┐рджреЗрд╢реАрдХреЛ рдЫрд╛рдбрд╛рдкрдирд▓рд╛рдИ рдЬрд┐рддреНрдиреЗ рдЦрд╛рд▓рдХреЛ рдЫреИрди рдЬрд╕реНрддреЛ рдд рд▓рд╛рдЧреНрджреИрди ред рддрд░ рдереЛрд░реИ рд╕реБрд╕рдВрд╕реНрдХреГрдд рдиреЗрдкрд╛рд▓реА рдЪреЗрд▓реА рд░ рдЪреЗрд▓рд╛ рджреБрдмреИрд▓рд╛рдИ рднрдиреЗ рдореЗрд░реЛ рд░ рд╕рдореНрдорд╛рди рдЫ рд╣реИ рее
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BathroomCoffee
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:14
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If we're all bokaas then y'all are all Khasiii. ha ha ha Sajha.com is a meetin place for all khassiiis and boookaaas ha ha ha ha
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Touch_of_Grey
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:16
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Boka = KT dekhne bittikai aankha chimliyera pachi lagne keta Bakhri = Keta dekhne bittikai aankha chimliyera pachi lagne KT so I think I agree to what maichori has said. Guys are bokas
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mai_chori_sudari
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:20
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Sumedhu, appreciated! "Gals are not so aggresive and expressive as compare to boys".
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uptowngal
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:32
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Sudari i m soooooooooooo agree with ya.
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Fabolous
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:48
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Sabai jana boka chainan ni ho mai chori sundari ji.
Last edited: 15-Nov-07 05:01 PM
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mai_chori_sudari
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:50
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thank u thank u... chotila chotila comment aaunu paryo...!!
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Birkhe_Maila
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Posted on 11-06-07 9:53
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рдпреЛ рдмреНрд╡рд╛рдЗрдЬ рднрдиреНрдирд╛рд▓реЗ рдХрддрд┐ рдЙрдореЗрд░ рджреЗрдЦрд┐ рдХрддрд┐ рдЙрдореЗрд░ рд╕рдореНрдо рдХреЛ рдкрд░реНрдпреЛ рдХреБрдиреНрдирд┐?
рдмрд╕рд┐ рдмрд╕рд┐ рднрд░реМрдБ рднрдиреЗ рдШреИрд▓рд╛ рднрдиреНрджрд╛ рд╕рд╛рдирд┐
рдЙрдард┐ рдЙрдард┐ рднрд░реМрдБ рднрдиреЗ рдХрдореНрдорд░ рджреБрдЦреНрдиреЗ рдмрд╛рдирд┐, рднрдПрдХреЛ рдЙрдореЗрд░рдХреЛ рдорд╛рддреНрд░реИ рдХрд┐ рдЕрд▓рд┐ рдмреБрдвреЛ рдЙрдореЗрд░ рдкрдирд┐ рд╣реЛ?
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Rahuldai
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:00
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рдЕрдВрд░рд┐рдХрд╛ рдорд╛рддреНрд░ рд╣реЛ рд░, рд╕рдВрд╕рд╛рд░ рднрд░рд┐рдХрд╛ рдард┐рдЯрд╛рд╣рд░реБ рдмреЛрдХрд╛ рд╣реБрдиреН рдирд┐ рдХрд╕реЛ? рдЦрд╕рд┐ рднрдпреЛ рднрдиреЗ рдд рдХреЗ рдард┐рдЯрд╛ рднрдпреЛ рд░? рдПрдЙрдЯрд╛ рдХреБрд░реЛ рдирд┐ред
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Amazing
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:01
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ho ho ma ek no ko BOKA ho kasle k garchha herau ta? this goes to her:-) Thank you bye bye OKTimi Pathi ma Boke
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mai_chori_sudari
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:14
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рдЙрдореЗрд░рдХреЛ рд╣рдж-рдмрдВрджреА рдЫреИрди , рдорд╛рд▓реНрджрд╛рдИ рдХреЛ рдЙрдореЗрд░ рдЪрд╛рд╣рд┐ рдХрддрд┐ рд░рдЫ? рдмреБрдврд╛ рд╣рд░реБ рдЭрди рд╕рд╛рд░реЛ рдорд╛рддрд┐рдпреЗрдХрд╛ рд░ рдкрд╛рддреНрддрд┐рдпреЗрдХрд╛ рд╣реБрдиреНрдЪрди рдирд┐ ! рдмреБрдвреЛ рдмреЛрдХреЛ....hehe....
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stylish
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:17
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Mai chori sundari timle kina keta haru lai boka sanga nai compare gareko??
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Amazing
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:19
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Hey Mai chhori Sudari ho ki Mai chhoro BOKO how did u connect this thread with "My GF dumped me"? Any correlation? or just the topic made u think so? Lekhna bhanda pahila yeso bujhne gara hai
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uptowngal
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:23
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jhilke daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa where have u been? daaaaa missing uuuuuuuuuu. Tihar aauna laageko belaa ma sis lai dekhera ni nadekheko jasto gerni kya. lovi da :P
Last edited: 06-Nov-07 10:26 AM
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mai_chori_sudari
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:24
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Amazing
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:28
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Oh Sani.....................how u doing? Been looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong we r off connected....!! Yestai ho hera na BOKA bhayepachhi bakhriharulai taha lagaunai parne.........fursad nai nahune Aajkal bhane budhi bakhri sanga time bitdai chha mero How abt you? Tihar ta aaunai lagyo ni hai Lov uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu sis
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