Posted by: Hoperays January 27, 2018
IT ले सम्बन्ध नै धराप मा पार्ला जस्तो भो
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Kale dai,
Im exactly in similar situation. IT ma lageko 1 and half year jati bhayo..1st project jaso taso support ko bharma 3 months base ani 6 month gap pachi arko project ma aako chu yaha aako ni 3 month jati bhayo( support ko bharma basirako chu).
I don’t know merai kamjori ho ki k ho..may be im not working hard enough or mero brain capacity thorai bhayeko le ho..
I don’t think I can be a good software developer.

Finished my bachelors in 7 years but kaam chai $15-$16 dollar bhanda mathiko payena tesaile IT tira lageko..

My wife work as as BA (genuinely pako kaam usle) for this huge company. She has to travel a lot with her colleagues and managers. Its not like  I don't trust her but tei pani daar lagcha( tyo euta movie ko seen samjhinchu jahile: where this married woman goes out on  business trip, at first she says no but her colleague insist so much eventually it happens ).She is way better looking than I am and also successful. I don't know how she chose me outta nowhere.
I told her I will take $15-$16 job in my own field so we can stay together but she encourage me to work hard for few years until I become a good. I take it positively but I really dont think I can be a developer.

I think our relationship is going good and we dont have any arguments but sometimes I feel like I shoud let her go and do whatever I am comfortable with. I know for sure if anything happens to our relationship..it will be because of me.
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