Yeah well everyone knows that keralites don't like tamilians, infact no one in andhra pradesh likes tamilians, espically a telegu. It has nothing to do with caste, but just politics. And no im not soft because I'm married to a indian brahmin. if indias hate nepalese then it has to do with how they are portrayed, cleaning indian shit and being coolies in nepal. It's not because they are higher brahmin than another brahmin. I am an upadhay brahmin as well and i don't beleive in anything like a and upadhay brahmin being higher than jaisi brahmins or whatever. That law only holds in Nepal and was made by the Ranas. In india there is no such thing as first class brahmin and second class brahmin. You can marry someone in your gotras because for brahmins there are like 7-8 rishis that brahmin fall from and they take their name as a gotra. And there are millions of brahmins so obviously your gotra is gonna collide. It's which rishi's ligneage you follow.