Whyhappy, Let's struggle to keep Sajha a some sort of a meritocracy, if you will -- a place where people judge us on the basis of how valid and reasonable and logically consistent our ideas and arguments are, and NOT on the basis of where we've been, where we are from or who our family is. Heated discusions need not be "fights" that require "peace outs". If anything, such discussions help one clarify issues, if not to the public, then certainly to one's own mind. oohi ashu