Personally I dont think their is anything wrong with having a lil tummy...I do not really go for the guys that are so concerned about their appearance that they spend all their time at the gym or tanning booth..I dont not care for "washboard abs" on men...My ex had a bit of a gut and I remember when I used to cuddle with him, I would tickle his belly and he'd giggle like the Pillsbury Doughboy...it was very erotic and drove me wild.