a depressed person , society, crowd can not be productive in any scenerio... I think Nepali people should have more fun and try to forget the pain... just being depressed and cranky everyday is not going to do any good....Life's short, top of that you won't be younge for a long time, so why do brothers and sis from Nepal should hold back and waste thier good years of the life..... People who blame them , i wonder what makes them feel it's okay for them to go to bars and drool on white girls while she rubs her back on her fat boy; or go to Nepali gatherings and show thier pot belly and and party while they get irretated to some Nepali having fun in Nepal.. So Nepali are born to suffer and we should die suffering??? For all Nepali bros and sis.. have fun tilly die.. who knows you will be slit by some extremist one day, or killed by maosts or Army, or die cuz of the pollution , cancer, what not... your life is very critical as being a Nepali... so enjoy when you can.. party more.. enjoy the life.. knock some asses up..(safely) and along the way if you meet MR. Yumara Raj, say gladly "lets go bro, i've had enough - i ain't got nothing to regret about "......Long live the Nepali parties and festivals and traditions... however, it would have been better if Nepali parties were cheaper.. like Rs.5 for bottomless and was more affordable to everyone - and not just some rich kids... hmmmmmmm