Swati Thapa, If you do not know the realiity of most of the moms I would suggest you to go back and read my posting AGAIN.Like you said Bolna payena bhandai ma pyaccha bolnu hudiana... should rather be redirected to you. I am sorry to hear about your mom passing asway in 94 but how on earth can you assume if I grew up with a mom or not? some people just can't help with being personal... Once again read the posting again with a pinch of salt who knows you might learn tons more qualities and sacrifices of being a mom.