My experince is bad too. I am guy who is in removal proceedings. So everytime a girl talks to me, i tell them frankly this is what is going on with me. Girls from nepal do not understand, girls from here run away as soon as they hear about this. Talked with two girls who were citizens. Everything went good until i told them this. They thought i was marrying them for citizenship. One girl i had to say no because her attitude changes so drastically. She would not say no, but would not say yes either or plan to meet.Just make fake promise to meet, make plan then postpone it for some absurd reason. It happened 5 times. I asked her if you have problem with me or you have bf or dont want to marry. If you have bf or dont want to marry i will simply tell my family i didnt like you. No secrets have to come out. But she kept saying no and made me swing like pendulum. After 4 months , i said keep your citizenship to yourself..i am taking highway baby.