Sitara, thanx. I guess , i am looking for the non existing or extinct kind. Buttomline, no one is perfect. Each of us have flaws. If we are looking for the 101 and 32 qualities , we will never find the right one. ( Let's go back to our history, Dropati asked for everything and she was blessed with 5 husbands) So, I say , focus on the few good qualities and forget and let go the bad ones ( that is if we want to be happy) So much for today.