hmm.. i'm jus here to comment on wut sweetie pie said. Although i dont agree with everything she says she does make some valid points.. but i'm not here to agree..i'm here to disagree... you keep saying "you are judging me by the way i dress".. but at the same your comment on women wearing sari was followed up by your comparison to white girls as being more smart, independent etc. so wut are we supposed to interpret that as? you are the one who judges any sari/kurtha wearing indiv as being passive, unintelligent, not outspoken and such. You are giving our cultural "luga" a negative connotation. Why do women need to necessarily follow the western fashion to be viewed as being progressive? wut about our nepali politicians and policewomen who wear saris.. udont think they're assertive, dominant and outspoken?? speakin of "white" ppl being this that and the other... i dont even want to get into that.. its like "americans" saying that anyone who doesnt speak perfect english and wear western attire are uncivilized, unintelligent, and "lagging" behind.. BUT i do agree about your thoughts on marriage, gay parade stuff, abortion n stuff... good points..but some bad ones too