[What??? It's ridiculous! What a misconception u all have! I am telling the truth why is it so hard to accept it for u guys.........put dress subject aside........nobody even bothered to comment on the my main point about learning from american women about their qualities( independence, brain, ability to make her own decisions in life etc). The truth is whatever they wear nepali women aren't independent, strong, nor has capabilities to choose their own husband, job, careers etc. ] Yes Sweetie jiu lets put the clothing subject aside.... but i have to again strongly disargree here with you---" my main point about learning from american women about their qualities( independence, brain, ability to make her own decisions in life etc)"--- Why do you think nepali or any other country's women have to learn these qualities frm american women???? Dont you think Nepali women are equally talented or brilliant if they are given an opportunity to prove themselves?? And talking about independence you dont inherit it by being an american women or copying them but society plays a bigger role in that case, so please lets not blame nepali women for it.... All i have to say is ..there is way too much generalization in your postings...but oh well thats your opinion so..... And hey Rythm... I felt really bad after hearing your situation, btw what was your reply to him when he said, "tan american ko ki k ho thaah chaina.. ma ta nepali ho.. ani nepali keta le kai gardaina... keti le sabai ghar ko kaam garnu parchha!!" I mean i cannot imagine if your own cousin or brother will treat like that to their siblings... then what can we expect frm others???? Well if i was you i would have gave him a big slap and said "timi america ko ho ki kaa ko ho malai thaha chhaina tara ma ta nepali ho ani nepali keti lai respect nagarne lai esari nai jawaf dinu parchha..." Peace!! It indeed is a bizarre world....