Sweetipie, You are bringing one more extra thing on your new posting. I would like to comment on dowry system. My dear , do you know how much is average wedding cost in United states? Its 21, 000 dollar. If you don?t believe me, do some research? Even in this country, People spend money to show off, especially for wedding. Lot of people charge their entire credit cards or take some loan to get married and most of them get end up in divorce. Both have to suffer from debt all their life. Could you tell me what?s difference between dowry and this thing? At least, Nepalese are getting rid of dowry and it mostly happens in south part of country. What about spending 21,000 for their wedding and suffer from debt all their life. You said? I am infact very educated and hold a really good job and I am very progressive too.? Hey sweetie, Are you looking a job or something? No one will give shit if you tell that you are educated, progressive and blah.. blah? . People know by their thinking and writings too. Who cares about your job? What you mean good job? What is good or bad? Work is work, no matter what it is? No matter how you would like to think about yourselves? You do have problem with Nepalese people and you still have big typical nepali thinking about job like you have good job; your friends have good job, Are you advertising yourselves? Sorry, no one will buy it?? ( Just curious, I know it?s really personnel but I would like to ask you. Did you get your paper by marring white guy? I hope you will be honest on this question.