confused auntie, as sitara points out you are generalizing the exceptions based on your limited views.critisicms is a part and parcel of anybodys life and so are the personal views. give you a small example.bush and kerry have 2 different plans for health care in america is not it.and both are trying to hard to show mistakes on each others plan.and also the abortion thing,war,educational system blah blah ........both might have some weaknesses in their respective plans.so why dont you tell them both bush and kerry or the one who's paln you think is not right that not accepting mistakes are the thing limited only to a nepali and not any american. what i mean is there are people who dont accept their mistakes and that applies everywhere even in your country the united states of america not only in nepal. but alas its differnet for some neps in america.you guys have a neprican glass in your eyes and hence you see different from what others seee .bhadau ma ankha futeko goru ley jailey ni hariyo dekhcha.............