bittertruth,
Can you plz go thru my write up once again PLZ. See a relationship doesnt grow without efforts... like you I think most of us have seen relationships grow or die. It all depends on both of their inputs. Trust me there will be a time in ur relationship where u feel it is not going anywhere...and it is upto you to grow from it or leave it there.
I agree with bairaghi here. That if it is not working its better to get out of it rather than just drag it. The only thing that is constant is change....and if you change for better, well and good...if it is worse...still it is achange and you gotta accept it.