To Sitara, --On being "Sati Savitri" -- you'd better be a sati savitri in your marriage/relationship unless you want to take in a boy friend or two too..... Why sitara, not everyone wants to be in onee Deep Realtionships, like you and me :P :P..?..ppl love to have fun tooo.. ---On wearing a Sari-- If you know how to wear it and wear it long enough, you'll be comfortable. If you know when to where it, it will be suitable (obviously, one can't go jogging wearing one!), If you know how to carry it off, you will look, beautiful, sexy, graceful and elegant... all at the same time. What more could you ask for? Sitara read her posting carefully, she said, "IN MY VIEW, its not comfortable.." so, leave her alone, let her do what she WANTS! :) --- --On pants-- It may be comfortable but not necessarily flatter your figure Why not?? if someone has a NICEEE piece of Body..wudnt those tight jeans/pants flatter ur figure... -- --On minis-- You may look "modern" but not necessarily well-dressed or elegant. Not well dressed or elegant?? coomon sitara, you missed the main point out there..ThEY WILL cerTAinly LOOK sexY in it! --On "copying white girls", you can be Nepali with black hair, with Nepali accent, with less than fluent English and still exude confidence which is attractive to both Nepalis and Foreigners; to both males and females!!!! Again, read her post carefully, she said "in terms of independence, brain, fashion forwardness, strong, skills etc", you think thats false?? prove it..ofcourse s_P meant Western Women not just White Women, right s_P? :) sorry gals, Sitara was here, cudnt resisit....:P :P ..