Posted by: KeEp_RoCkInG October 14, 2004
Abortion right or wrong??
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Here i would like to emphasize that if a couple is in a marriage than the woman alone got no right to decide about the abortion.....she definitely have to discuss this issue with her husband and together they have to come out with the solution. if she really wanna abort the baby then she has to give a valid reasons to her husband for doing so. It doesn't mean that just because it's her body she can just go ahead for the abortion without letting her husband know. When a couples is in a marriage it's also mean that their heart and soul should also be one. So whenever any party wanna take a serious action then they have to discuss the issue with each other. It's also a away of respecting each other. if both party start doing what they like then the marriage will not work....!!! Instead the issue will become more complicated. Your husband can never trust on you in the future. I know that there are some career minded women out there who give first priority to their work and then their family. If you are not ready to take responsibility of having a baby and your husband insist on having the baby then you should make it very clear that he have to take the responsible of the child rather than you.....he have to do more of the task of taking care of the baby than you....if needed he should be the one who should quit his job instead of you....if he agree with all that then problem is solve.....there is no reason of going for the abortion....believe me there are some men who are willing to take of the job of motherhood just becoz they are very fond of the baby......and here we are talking about his own baby. So ladies, do discuss the issue with your husband before jumping for the big conclusion.....if only the husband is a Male chauvinistic Pig and see thing in a very old fashion way then i have nothing to say about....it will depend on the girl how she gonna win her husband favourism. Try to enlighten them by telling him that both of you are not ready to take the respossibility and can't give in full commitment and dedication which will lead to the child suffering and inproper brought up etc..etc... just give them your piece of mind why u think it is not right yet to give birth. I know it wouldn't be easy task.....but seriously....do give a try before you come out with your final decision becoz in the end the final decision is still yours. But if your husband insist on having the baby and is willing to take all the resposible then atleast you don't have to go for the abortion. If it's out of the marriage than the woman has the sole right to do what she think is right for her.
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