No you didn't. Normally if we know the person's name we call the person by it, unless we are overwhelmed by racist emotions. The loud tone saying "OYE BAHADUR" might have been one of hateful indian attitude. They are the same, no matter wherever they are. Very few indians act with an elegant, mannered way. you were absolutely not out of your way. In fact, you were one of the rarest among we nepalis.