'What a beautiful and classic piece of posting.. What an original argument' .. bhalaan bhnera post gareko ta, yo chhusi Confused laai chahi sankina pari halyo. Anyway, Cofused dude, you really seems to be confused. You wrote: nepe dude, do u even read the thread or just come and give out links for "two years old" disscussion...what you have pasted above have been stated many times, by many diff ppl in this same thread.. So you are displeased with the possibility that I might have not read the thread. Fair enough. Then you go on and say what I have posted above has been already stated by the posters in this thread. Alrite, let's assume I have not read the thread and the posters here are repeating the same thing I posted some two years ago. But then why on earth I should be reading and re-reading the things I have already posted ? Why can't I simply say, look I have already said those things you are saying now ? I don't see anything wrong with that. That was just for the sake of argument. The reality is I happened to have read this thread. In fact, I have read some other threads too. Actually, that is how I could very confidently give you the title of a chhusi poster, Confused Dude. It was not your reply to my posting alone. Let me add this too, posters like you have degraded Sajha so much that San had to resort to very un-Sajhaic option called 'Writer's Guild'. Back to my posting. Confused Dude, read my posting again. There are things which no posters have yet stated or argued. If you have difficulty to locate them, let me know, I will help you with utmost pleasure. **************** sweetiepie, I know we are on the same side. However you wrote: but I don't agree with a husband choosing to abort a daughter if he doesn't like it. No, I did not say that. In fact, one of my major points is that nobody but the woman bearing the fetus should have right to decide about it. And I called the instance of husband taking the decision immoral. These are my words: Is abortion immoral ? Yes, if it is anything but termination of UNWANTED pregnancies and if it is decided by individual OTHER THAN the woman bearing the fetus. Now, how about a woman herself taking a decision such as selective abortion, or even worse, four in a row ? Of course, you are right. She would be risking her health and may be emotional health as well. We should always encourage education that is pro-life, pro-health and pro to all the good and ideal things in life. This part should never be compromised. However, when it comes to the matter of the legal right at the end of the day, it belongs to the woman who is bearing the fetus. So, here is the balance, which I hope answers the questions from both ends. Education: Pro-life Law: Pro-choice Nepe