SITARA, You may have the means to raise an adopted kid. Not everyone here in this conversation are rich enough to do that. Many of them are still students who barely can support themselves. Just because some one is pro-life does not mean that he/she needs to go adopt a kid. You can be a pro-life or not. But you HAVE to be a good person who is financially, emotionally, mentally and socially capable to adopt and raise a child. It's not as easy as coming to this forum and expressing their views. One can still be a pro-life and be really bad at raising kids. They are two different things. You work with kids and it is surprising that you are pro-choice, or it seems. sweetP