yes, if you are in a relationship with a woman whose husband is far away, and she makes excuses to not elope with you, you are going to be dead sooner or later unnaturally. She's just using you for her sexual needs, her love is still attached to her former husband. Remember to some women, you are nothing but a dildo with a body. Beware fckers, if you are in such relationship.. have fun, enjoy.. but just don't try to materialize it, else u r fcked up .