Listen swati, i dont believe in caste system brought by some jayastithi malla and some other brahaman being myself as well. I do love damai kami and i do think they are humanbeing. I do love to break the barrier but i have to think about lot of thinks. 1. can i sacrifice my entire family for that girl? 2. why my parents say" son get married to newar, kirat but not to damai kami".? 3. How am i going to take my wife to my relatives like grandad and mom in festival like dashara? 4. We have to maintain the laungage standard in my culture like hajur aisiwas, bhuja junarr gari baksiyos? 5. They are pretty but i see lot of them lack what my mother has? 6. They are good ppl but our society is not ready for it yet? 7. why do u think i am sitll unmarried? Lets make the world better, but going step by step. If u try to jump then u will loss the step. Give it a time, teach our ppl to walk then make them run. everything has time