I dont call in confusion at any cost. It is basic process where human being seeks for their real value and identity. There are millions of ppl who claim themself for getting and finding what they want? In my view, they are the most lost ppl in world. It takes ages to recognise itself. It is also true that some ppl realise what they are when they are on dead bed. I have always been lost and still lost. I have found what i wanted to do in my life? according to your language..my ambition.( to be hospitality guy). Secondly, i wonder now why i am doing this? Sometimes, confused bro leave the things it is...our human life is bond with patience, compassion, emotion and sacrifice. If you try to make things much better by changing it becomes butterfly effect. Dont forget the ripples effect in lake...that is life? it the point where it rules and rocks..