To hydrogen sulphide,
From your writings, I sense mixed emotions of reverse culture shock and quarter life crisis. Sounds like you made that difficult decision to come back to Nepal. I do not know if it is a permanent move or a temporary one, but you are entitled to your own opinions and decisions. Everyone has to pave their own way eventually.
But as a recent returnee myself after a decade plus a few years, I am loving every bit of it. Of course there are a lot of things that are wrong with Nepal, but there are enough things that are right to make up for it . I am not going to point out those things, because my personal experience might not necessarily match yours. Over the course of your stay here, if you cannot see past the dusty haze of Kathmandu, then Nepal is certainly not for you. In regards to socio cultural issues, societies just do not evolve out of the blue.
You must have grand expectations from Nepal but I had very low and clear expectations before I came and I have not been disappointed so far.