Ok, Funtush. Reading your two posts, first on Rangoli and second on "khutta-dhogne", I have diagnosed that you are suffering from FBlues.
Fblues symptoms:

* You look at what your friends are doing from the posts.
* You get pissed because you are not partaking in that fun.
* You then vent your frustration here in Sajha, asking why people don't do the things your way?
* You find issues in minor things primarily because you don't do those things.
* You feel lonely and a little bit of jealous-rage so you find flaw in everybody else.