Good one ClickerClick.. Did she tell she went to village and stay there for 2 months and knew every thing LOL? Sweetie I was born and raised in one of the remotest village where my BABA used to walk extra miles to bring water everyday, bring something to eat for supper and my Mama used to take care of house hold stuff and same applies to my neighbour.. I could recall once or twice some Samaz Sewi came to my village, their talk spellbounded each and every individual in begining.. Later most of us realized, action of those women aggrssive in nature (just like how you are reacting in Sajha). It seemed to me they consider my Father is all time great foe of my mother. What they didn't tried to figure out is , there are always certain bounderies for a woman so to a man. Just like you may be they were rich, they have enough time to bullshit around and bring tension in the family..Gradually we felt offended by their practice. And one day one of my Didi came back to visit us in my village were highly educated. Highly educated in the sense she had master degree in Sociology and were doing PHD. In contrary those women were jack who collect info from here and there, may most of those information were from SADHANA PATRIKA. Didi noticed that these sort of activity may bring some sort of instability in our small village. Later she held meeting with all those Samaj Sewi, and she figured out their motives. Their point is woman should have right. Well we know women should be treated equally. But when didi asked "where, in this place, did you see a single woman is being discriminated", the answer was "They cook, the clean, the take care of kids"..What a jerk were they? And didi simply ask "Do you regret to take care of your children?" and again asked "Are you guys saying taking care of children, feedin them from breast is consequence of discrimination?"..They were speechless.. Didi said Society is so well- balanced by Men and Women.. Changes is necesssary where it is needed not like this... In name of changes balanced of society and nature cannot be altered totally. Education, illimination of poverty, laws and order should be established in country then this things change gradually..Didi ask those women "Have any one you asked Mother of this village that an education to the daughter is necessary?"..Lol they forgot to, coz they were just busy washing brain of our mothers against our fathers. Bond with certain restriction doesn't necessarily mean women are treated differenetly..Yes in Nepal some of our mothers and sisters are suffering but just not becoz of Men, their are various factor related. What make you come to Sajha and put your views and ideas, Sweetie? You are educated and you know stuffs, you have maid who works for you, you have car, money and loving husband..Then, you have time to think about other women suffering right? Put yourself in shoes of those unfortunate mothers who are not materially sophisticated. Will you be protesting MURDABAD against your husband just becoz you are a woman and you are in Nepal where Men are jerk? Sweetie, I know my Mother is not educated but she has sense, she knows how things work. Thats why I am here well established in US becoz of them (my mom and dad). Where would I be if my MOM were like you who sees everything bad about my DAD? Fortunately you have American Husband, otherwise I would be so sorry for that Nepali Husband. Sweetie maiya aba ta atti nai bho binti cha hazur ko gaan gaan banda garnus..BTW mero budi le hazur ko lekh padli ra mero birodh ansan basna thalli..Atleast for now were living happily..