if i forget for a second she is not smart/educated and driven kind of person, she can the best life partner. But looking all my friends, today's modern situation, difficulties, struggles. she never came up with these situations. she has no experience of struggle/problems and sense of drive to become something or get educated. i really get confused while i am on the way to finalize the relationship with her. if it was Nepal it would not make big sense but in America its different story.