Madam swati thapa, by saying "her/his father must be savouring" the death of their enemies, I DID NOT the question the necessity or non-necessaity of insurgency. Since the original post was a letter filled with emotion from son/daugh. to a father and s/he seemed to be quite apprehensive about his/her father's position, I just wanted to reveal to her and the readers here how one party's sorrow turns to another party's happiness. Simple as that.