Its so sad to see what daughters/sons have to go through cuz of their parents actions. I really feel for you. Nobody wants to be in her/his shoes. My thumbs up to u being courageuos to post ur pain and anguish here in this public forum. Bhanchan man ko betha dherai bandhna hundaina kholnu parcha ani halka huncha. I am getting ur situation. BTW what are u trying to say here Mr. Jagalte Bhoot by saying that her/his father must be savouring ur relatives death. Sir JB u have to understand why this insurgency started in nepal? i know u do as like all of us. Nobody can deny they didn't know what was going. Jus for example and its truth how we are creating maobaadis' Have u heard a place name Butwal its 6-8 hrs drive from KTM. If u go further west for about 20 min ride u will find this place( u have to find by urself the name of this place). There is this tharu community but most of young male and female are now insurgents. Do u know the reason why? Cuz there is this thula bada whom they work for 24/7 but still not able to feed themselves. Its like so called slavery once he dies his son or daughter serves them. Every now and than they go for hunting, do u know what kinda hunting is that? they go to this tharu village and make women sit on line and they choose with whom they gonna spend their nights. They don;t care if she is someones' wife, daughter or sister they just need to make their nights colorful thats all. Now tell me how u gonna judge this communities involvement in insurgency? well we know this tharu ppls are voice unheard in nepal and they are treated as if they are aliens. here is another one it happened to my cuzin in nepal U go south towards bhairahawa u will find this place called MANIGRAM a very political place. My cuzin was raped and murdered while she and my other cuzins were coming back from their mawali getting dashain ko tika. Everybody knows it who did it and have eye witness too. But to our dismay eye witness were dicounted cuz they were from a family. have u ever heard that? EVEN THE JUSTICE SYSTEM DIDN'T HELP US.Tell me what u have to say now. To make this matter most some upper class ppl said JAO MAGAR HO DEKHAU TIMIHRU KO TAKAT HAMRO CHORA KO BAAL PANI UKHADNA SAKDAINAU. SORRY FOR MY LANGUAGE HERE. BUT THATS WHAT IT IS. BY SAYING ALL OF THIS I AM NOT TRYING TO JUSTIFY THE ACTION OF INSURGENTS. WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS WE ALSO HAVE TO SEE THEIR PROSPECTIVES TOO, DON'T WE? FOR ME INSURGENCY IS GOOD INTENTION TAKEN WRONG PATH. WITH LOVE AND PEACE