lollllllllllllll sitara ji..are you sure ? i mean, we will do all those gushy stuff you mentoned above, music, wine, heck even candle and massage if you w ish.. lol.. kiddin'.. well if you pass what can i say.. i can't force you now , can i ? so i guess i'm just gonna have to ask someone else.. you donn't know what you be missin' though ;) haha