Hey DC girl, bravo for bringing this topic!! I totally understand u! Plenty of people giving u a hard time here(this thread) I know! So many of my friends are forced to get married after knowing the guy or girl for few days haha! No wonder they are suffering now...... My honest opinion is that u should be able to find somebody of your type here. Don't discriminate between khaire or asian.....every race have some really compatible men out there. I know it's real tough to find a guy in Nepal because your perspectives and views of lives clashes.....he wants u to be a typical "sati savitiri" housewife whereas your aim to be a successful working woman and not only wife. I know most parents are very strict but I am lucky that mine aren't! I was able to choose my own guy and just got married....extremely happy! Date few people to see check your compatibility if your parents are easygoing u know! GOOD LUCK!!